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Post by RTF Squared on Mar 4, 2014 1:17:24 GMT
mobile.nytimes.com/2014/02/27/us/Brewer-arizona-gay-service-bill.html?_r=0&referrer=It's probably pretty well known I support/advocate for gay rights. I feel their movement is very similar to that of the blacks during the civil rights movements of the 60's. Eventually businesses were no longer allowed to turn away business to somebody based on race. There is a crucial difference between these movements, no reasonable person judges somebody as immoral for being black based on religious reasons. I think religious freedom a great thing, and laws based primarily in religious morality bad. I also love me some individual liberty. This law being vetoed spits in the face of all of the above. No group should be made/forced to serve a group they find immoral based on their religion's structure. Really people should be allowed to associate with/ voluntarily segregate from any group for any reason, this is America after all, but even moreso for religious reasons. Some good examples of how this law should have worked. "Should a Christian run bridal shop be required to serve a gay couple?" "Should a Jewish baker be required to serve a neo-Nazi a birthday cake with a swastika on it?" The correct answer is "abso-fucking-lutely not. Why should your skills as a professional be used to further the message of a group you find immoral? I'm again, generally in support for gay equality, but forcing people to play nice with a moral structure they don't agree with is so freaking wrong I'm at a loss for how do describe it. Fascism is the best word I can think of for it. One of the most important components of liberty is the ability to disagree with a group of people and not being forced to play nice. Thats like if somebody forces my Juggalo hating ass to build a holster with a hatchet-man motif built into it, while making sure it works great with a Jennings on saggy pants with no belt. I'd tell a moefaux to pound sand with the quickness.
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Post by dannusmaximus on Mar 5, 2014 15:11:59 GMT
Was there anything in Arizona that would have kept a photographer, baker, or some other business owner from saying politely to a gay couple, "Gents, I'm really sorry, but I'm all booked up that day. Maybe you could give 'X' a call and they will be able to help you out. They do a really nice job and I know you'll be happy with them..." It seems like this bill was an attempt to find a solution for a nonexisitant problem.
Also, as far as this: "No group should be made/forced to serve a group they find immoral based on their religion's structure. Really people should be allowed to associate with/ voluntarily segregate from any group for any reason, this is America after all, but even moreso for religious reasons."
Are you saying that I shouldn't have to 'serve' somebody in the ER or in my role as a firefighter if I find their lifestyle to be "immoral"? Because ultimately, that's the kind of shit laws like the proposed Arizona law could lead to. I could decide not to cut a person out of their car because they got in a wreck on their way back from a gay bar, and my personal flying spaghetti monster tells me that I have to hate the gays and they're damned anyway. That seems insane to me.
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Post by Gingerbread Man on Mar 5, 2014 16:21:35 GMT
Interesting conversation. Personally, I think businesses should be able to refuse service to anyone for any reason. Ultimately, it's their property and their store. I've refused to sell guns to people just because I've thought they were shitbags. Should I be compelled to do something I'm not willing to do?
As for the DM comments, I think it's a different case. It's a well known public good having service from the police/fire/EMT. Those are paid for in part or in whole by public funds so as a public official, they can't choose. As a private entity, they can choose.
As far as gay rights, I'm not for them. I'm for individual rights of all. I don't believe in special interest groups nor special representations for certain favored parties.
Further that, the govt. needs to get out of the marriage business. Everyone files taxes individually and the churches marry who they please. Between me and my God, I do not approve of homosexuality nor gay marriage. If the govt. gets out of the marriage business then gays can do as they wish. I do not favor any laws abridging homosexuals or infringing on them. Do as you wish however, ask no favor or approval from me.
Granted, there are a bunch of groups that I don't approve of. Drug use, thuggery, or just general moral corruption. I don't even like strip clubs. However, save harming another in any form I don't believe in a law against drugs use or moral corruption. Nor do a favor any support when you fall on your face for engaging in those activities.
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Post by Browning35 on Mar 6, 2014 3:23:11 GMT
I agree with this...
Personally I don't agree with homosexuality, but I'm also in a field where I wouldn't feel comfortable with refusing people care even if I wouldn't lose my certs and there were no personal consequences in refusing to care for someone (that applies to anyone, we actually don't have anti-discrimination laws regarding homosexuals here in TX - Not really an issue though, if they're human they get treated).
I don't have to like every person I come into contact in order to do my job. I just have to do my job.
Having said that though I think it's ridiculous that they're being sued and these special interest groups are winning so far. What happened to the belief and those signs that said "We reserve the right to refuse service to anyone"?
I can actually see this kind of thing backfiring against people forcing someone to do something against their will though. "Okay, the law says I *HAVE TO* serve you, but that doesn't mean it has to be any good or pleasing to look at". I also wouldn't want to eat anything that I forced someone else to make for me at the threat of a lawsuit or the barrel of a gun/handcuffs. I'm not naive. Think about what teenage fast food service people do to the food of rude customers, I could see someone getting a real shitty cake (maybe literally).
If I operated a storefront I really don't care enough to refuse service to people based on their lifestyle unless they were showing their ass and creating a scene and bothering my staff or my other customers. If they want to jack up their lives it's their business, refusing to bake them a cake isn't that big of a statement. It's just a cake. :Shrug
I believe that any business owner should have that right to tell someone to get out of their store though. Public service is a different story.
Edit : Spelling
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Post by RTF Squared on Mar 6, 2014 9:58:21 GMT
I'm doing some more research on the topic. Basically the Civil Rights Act of 1964 outlaws denying service based on the classic "race, color, religion, sex, or national origin" grounds. It doesn't specify sexual orientation though. Some states have passed further acts outlawing discrimination on sexual orientation. California has the Unruh Civil Rights Act, which guarantees equal service from a "for-profit" business to anybody. en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Unruh_Civil_Rights_ActAn example from the above Wiki page showing an exemption: "California courts recently held that a private school's admissions office was not covered by the Act, because it was not a business. (A school had expelled two students who were perceived as bisexual.) "Although the fact the School is nonprofit is not controlling, this does mean it should not be deemed a business unless it has some significant resemblance to an ordinary for-profit business." Doe v. California Lutheran High School Ass'n, 170 Cal.App.4th 828 (2009)." www.legalzoom.com/us-law/equal-rights/right-refuse-serviceAnother example showing an example of the act in work: "On the other hand, a California court decided that a restaurant owner could not refuse to seat a gay couple in a semi-private booth where the restaurant policy was to only seat two people of opposite sexes in such booths. There was no legitimate business reason for the refusal of service, and so the discrimination was arbitrary and unlawful." The whole article is an interesting read. It's been stated that this is in response to Arizona seeing parties in other states getting sued for denying service to gays. It may also be Arizona's way of pre-empting further laws such as the Unruh Act being enacted on state level. In this bureaucratic nation, it's in unsurprising move from a group that may feel as B35 provided and bolded for us in his above post. Besides, you can't blame any state for not wanting to end up more like California. If they are going to legislate their way to a preferred status, pull the ground they may try to stand on from underneath them. I will admit, reading the text is pretty legalese, but it doesn't appear that their is any specific wording to prevent any particular person for using religion as an excuse to not perform public service. I may have missed it or it may not be there. I'm sure if somebody says their personal spaghetti monster dictates that they are too immoral to receive emergency care and they can live with that on their conscience something like that could happen. With some of the garbage that passes as religion these days it could sound that bad too. I'm sure you guys know a hell of a lot more of the legal requirements of providing emergency service than I ever will, but it doesn't sound like something even the most vehemently anti-gay individual would do. Even if they did, based on B35's post I assume they'd be out of job and career in a snap. I think Gingerbread stated it nicely, anybody should be able to refuse service to anybody for any reason, even if it's just because dude is a fuckhead. It has a time and place in many businesses. couple of times I've traded/sold guns privately I had been contacted by somebody that was not being sold a gun, no way no how, legal or not. Not a business venture, but same moral applies. It shouldn't have to come down to pulling out the constitution and relying on religious freedom to grant you the ability to tell them to kick rocks. I'm near-certain the "We reserve the right to refuse service to anyone" signs are illegal in some jurisdictions. I'm going to do more legwork on that one, but I'm pretty sure I read that it was illegal in one of the mandated workplace-rights posters at my last job, and I haven't seen one of the signs in years. As far as "hey, we're too booked, call up so-and-so," this is just another unnecessary euphemism for that is really at hand. Evidently, in CA it can get you sued if you get caught in a lie about it. It's pretty sad that laws about who can deny service to who have to be written. It's sad that people treated people of race so poorly that they had to have laws written that not only made them "equal" but also seem favored to many people. It's downright pathetic that people these days that somebody can be sued for sticking to their religious morals. If a Christian business wants to deny business to gay people because they find them immoral, they should be able to do so and tell them why without sugarcoating it. B35 makes a great points. Why can't they not make such a stink about and just build the damned cake, or why can't they just find somebody that will build them them a "faaaaabulous" cake? Either isn't too hard to achieve, but I'll side with the first group. People need to get over themselves. Are you seriously such a butthurt entitled victim that you have to sue somebody for something like denial of service when you could have probably went a mile down the road and found somebody that can serve you enthusiastically? I mean, c'mon, how hard can it be to find a gay florist or baker? I liked this quote. “It shows that tolerance is one way,” he said, referring to the militant gay protests. “Those who trumpet the message of tolerance have no tolerance for people who disagree with them.” It's America and a cornerstone of this country is tolerating an opposing opinion. We're seriously lacking in this nowadays. I can tolerate any opposing argument as long as it is thought out and not a bunch of rabble. This forum is great for the former.
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Post by Gingerbread Man on Mar 6, 2014 12:38:46 GMT
My main point is this, until money changes hands my property that I have for sale is mine. That means the eggs, flour and sugar are mine. That gun is mine, even if we agree to a deal, I can change my mind up until money is exchanged. I see this in the service industry too. If I walk in to a strip club and throw money at the stripper, does that mean I get the lap dance if she doesn't want to? Nope, I'd be throw on my ear. Same goes for cake, it's my cake until I decide to release my property to anyone. Corner stone of our nation is our right to our property, that includes our talents. Should RTF be compelled to make holsters with his talent to some gang that he thinks is raiding people's homes? Nope. Emergency or medical care is a whole different animal, IMO, because one of the paramount corner stones of our nation is the "right to life". So, in keeping with this it's understandable that denying that service is a big fail. Now, you should have to pay for that service however asking someone to grab the check book when they're dying in a fire seems a bit much. Next in the line after the right to life is liberty. That means my liberty is trumped by "saving" someone's life. WTF does that mean? It mean the EMS can block my travel to save someone's life. It means emergency care must be rendered and my economic liberty to support this can be infringed. Now, the last part is the pursuit of happiness. Marriage is a form of the pursuit of happiness. Since there is a "graduated" scale here; life, liberty then the pursuit of happiness. Now since liberty trumps happiness that means my liberty (religious, economic, property or just being a sour ass) can not be trumped by someone else's pursuit of happiness. Ever. My liberty can be reasonably trumped to save a life because I want my life saved if it's in peril.
That line is the foundation of our nation and it's a damn good corner stone, IMO.
"Life, Liberty and the Pursuit of Happiness"
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Post by Browning35 on Mar 6, 2014 13:38:23 GMT
My main point is this, until money changes hands my property that I have for sale is mine. That means the eggs, flour and sugar are mine. That gun is mine, even if we agree to a deal, I can change my mind up until money is exchanged. I see this in the service industry too. If I walk in to a strip club and throw money at the stripper, does that mean I get the lap dance if she doesn't want to? Nope, I'd be throw on my ear. Same goes for cake, it's my cake until I decide to release my property to anyone. Yeah, I agree. That why I think the bakers should have won. It's been stated that this is in response to Arizona seeing parties in other states getting sued for denying service to gays. It may also be Arizona's way of pre-empting further laws such as the Unruh Act being enacted on state level. In this bureaucratic nation, it's in unsurprising move from a group that may feel as B35 provided and bolded for us in his above post. Besides, you can't blame any state for not wanting to end up more like California. If they are going to legislate their way to a preferred status, pull the ground they may try to stand on from underneath them. The thing is that they're trying to do this at a time when this preferred status thing should end, not keep going. You want to be equal, that's fine. Trying to be better than everybody else is an entirely different story. I can completely see why AZ did this, who wants to end up like Cali? I'm surprised the Gov vetoed it, that'll have some consequences. You would, Texas DSHS and the National Registry would almost certainly move to suspend someone who refused to treat a pt for some reason other than a medical one. They'd investigate and then if it turned out to be true they'd pull your cert. No one's going to do that though. Since day one they drill into you if you're on shift you have a duty to act. I've personally treated child molesting and murdering sexual predators. I can't say I was happy about it, but I did my job. Some regular gay dude doesn't have anything on that. I'm also probably not as anti-gay as you might think. I disagree with it for moral reasons, but it's more of a blasé opposition rather than some burning hatred. When it comes down to it I agree with the bakers, they should have the right to refuse service to someone if they so choose. It just seems like such a minor point to stand on though, is it worth all this? Lost their business, getting sued and so on. I'm stubborn as fuck on stuff I believe in, but I usually try to reserve those moments for when its really worth it. It's obviously worth it to them though and maybe they feel if they give in on the small stuff that it'll just lead to larger situations later.
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Post by Gingerbread Man on Mar 6, 2014 13:46:32 GMT
I'm also probably not as anti-gay as you might think. I disagree with it for moral reasons, but it's more of a blasé opposition rather than some burning hatred. Yeah, this is me as well. Hence, I'm not supporter but I'm not a hater either. Live, be free but I'm not obligated to support anything I disagree with.
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Post by NamelessStain on Mar 8, 2014 0:10:56 GMT
OK, here's my 3 cents.
Do I condone homosexuality? It's not for me, go ahead and do what you want. Ultimately my religious beliefs shouldn't guide your life just like your beliefs shouldn't impact my life. Also I shouldn't judge homosexuals for their life choices since it's against my religion. Remember in the end it is their choices to which they will have to answer if there is a time/person who will judge them. I'm not going to get AIDS or whatever fearmongering unscientific crap some people believe (OMG , I'm going to get the gay virus). Their money spends just like any other and if I owned my own business, I'd happily accept it.
Be careful of the laws you enact today, one day they may be turned against you. Just imagine if this law passed. Muslims hate just about everyone and can quote some passage to justify it. Hell they hate each other if they aren't the same sect of Islam. Sure they are only some miniscule amount of the population today, but now look at Denmark. It's predicted by 2020, Denmark will have a majority of Muslims and would be able to elect an Islamic leader then declare sharia law. Remember they don't see the separation of religion and state, to them they are one in the same and inseparable.
Now let's flip that coin over. Currently there are already laws based on religious beliefs/practices. You may not think about it since it doesn't really impact you. I'm talking Kosher laws (and recently Halal laws). Now it doesn't force everyone to follow it, only people who wish to declare their food Kosher.
Now here's the one that will probably offend some people and I'll say in advance that it is not my motivation. A friend and I were having a discussion and he started quoting the bible. I stopped him and said it's invalid to use the bible as the basis of an argument since not everyone believes the same thing. Telling someone Jewish that the bible says "**" means absolutely nothing since they lead their lives based on other religious beliefs. He just nodded and said he understands why that is my point of view and we continued the discussion.
I have some homosexual friends and even 1 relative (second cousin). They all recognize that I don't care if they are homosexual, but also respect my opinions by not trying to "force me to accept them" (which they know pisses me off). They respect my beliefs just as I respect their choices. I hate to support a stereotype but my second cousin, he is a fantastic florist . Whenever I want to send flowers to my mom, he's the first one I call. He knows this and never disappoints.
My mom got remarried and had the ceremony at her place. My second cousin decorated the house. He spent 8 hours making sure everything was right and that my mom was happy. If I send my mother flowers, he's the only one I call. We chit chat and catch up on the phone then he asks what I'm looking to get her. I swear he doubles the flowers and find something awesome to put them in. Last time I sent her $100 in flowers. He went to a flea market, picked up an old wagon and proceeded to fill it with a flower arrangement that was probably $200 in flowers. I called him back and said I owed him money since it was so much. He said something to the effect of "Well my supplier over delivered so I made a deal to get some flowers at half cost, so I gave them to you for what I paid."
TL;DR Homosexuality: not for me, do what you want. The laws you enact today, may be abused tomorrow. Not everyone believes in the same thing, don't force your beliefs down their throats My second cousin is an awesome florist.
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